Tanya (San Diego, California)—My fiancé’s penis size has always been something of a hush, hush topic for me because, having been with larger men in the past, he’s just over five and a quarter inches long and just under 4 inches around, I missed the intensity of the sex I used to have with larger endowed lovers from the past. I know is size is average, on the smaller side of average. And it’s not that he couldn’t give me an orgasm (sometimes), the thing about Travis (let’s call him that for the sake of this letter) is that he’s very focused and works very hard to please me. He knows what to do with his tongue and fingers and even his penis, but it’s always just been a matter of him working within his means. Before any guys read this and think that I’m just being a selfish bitch, it’s not like that. I never did reveal to Travis that his penis size was a problem for me, and I never ever would have. His feelings are very important to me, so I would have just gone on silently longing for the big hard intensity that I missed from the past.
Even in reputable studies, the statistical average varies, US median is about 5.5 inch according to the biggest study (1661 sexually active men) we could find by the well known Journal of Sexual Medicine. Most men have an erect size between 5 and 6 inch, so below 5 inch can be considered small. Don’t be fooled by the penis sizes you often see in adult movies, all actors are selected individuals far above the average size. These movies certainly don’t depict any statistical average and also use visual tricks to make the manhood of the male actors appear even larger.
Using penile extenders involves hanging a weight off the penis for hours at a time, which doesn't increase size. To the contrary, this can cause tissue damage and there have been reports of it causing Peyronie's disease (curving of the penis). Rather than resulting in enlargement, using penile extenders could cause injury and have a negative effect on your ability to get an erection.
Is it effective? Yes and no. With a penis pump, your penis really does grow – noticeably so. However as soon as you release the vacuum, your penis goes right back to original size. There’s no evidence of long-term benefits, but they do have one advantage for sufferers of erectile dysfunction: since the vacuum draws blood into the penis, you can quickly roll on a gently constricting cockring after removing the pump, thereby ‘trapping’ the penis in an erect state. While some people who have tried this technique report positive findings, we suggest consulting a doctor first.
Some surgical methods have the most evidence of effectiveness, whereas others have fairly frequent complications, sometimes severe, including scarring that lead, ultimately, to penis shrinkage or erectile dysfunction.[1][2] Noninvasive methods have received little scientific study, and most lack scientific evidence of effectiveness, although scientific evidence supports some elongation by prolonged traction.[3] Some quack products may improve penis erection, mistaken by consumers for penis enlargement.
Studies suggest that when erect, the average adult penis measures around 13cm in length and 10cm to 12cm in circumference. It might be comforting to know that a penis that is smaller when flaccid may be a similar length to that of a larger flaccid penis when both are erect. But measuring your penis isn’t going to change its size, so ask yourself, why measure it? Do you think that discovering that your penis is within the ‘average range’ will soothe your anxieties about it being small? What will you do if you discover it is in fact, smaller than average? Unfortunately, many men try to increase their penis size through various interventions that can be invasive, costly and not make a difference to the way they feel about themselves. The solution is more likely to be a change of attitude towards yourself and your penis, namely learning to love what you’ve got.
A small penis isn’t more sensitive than a larger one, but surprisingly there is some correlation, many men with a relatively small penis report that they ejaculate prematurely. From the purely medical point of view, this could be conincidence, but not from the psychological. No matter how important or unimportant penis size is for the female partner, men with a smaller penis often feel unsecure, at least subconsciously. Insecurity leads to stress and bodily tension, which encourages coming too fast. This subjective failure causes even more stress the next time, a cycle that’s hard to break. That’s the main reason why penis enlargement often assists in lasting longer in bed, too.
Did you know that the longer you wear HARDWEAR, the bigger (harder, thicker, longer) your penis becomes. Seen above in the before and after photo Clay’s erection is shown without HARDWEAR on the left, and his erection after 8 minutes of wearing HARDWEAR is shown on the right. The amazing male enhancer gets a man instantly super large and super hard and then continues to have a pumping effect on the man’s penis for as long as he wears the device… so the longer the round of love making or masturbation the bigger he becomes. Some men, who enjoy marathon rounds of sex for say an hour or longer—that’s right, you can last however long you want in HARDWEAR because it stops early ejaculation too, putting men in total control—like to switch out thier regular size HARDWEAR in the middle of extended sex\training sessions, too a larger size. The reason being that HARDWEAR is so effective at expanding male genital geometry that extended rounds some men become too big for their regular size and need to go up a size. HARDWEAR works instantly and effectively to make you larger every time you put it on, from the first time to forever, and acts as a training device that promotes better circulation for a beefier looking penis even without the device. Long-term, repeated HARDWEAR use may result in permanent size gains even when not wearing the device.
Is it effective? Yes and no. With a penis pump, your penis really does grow – noticeably so. However as soon as you release the vacuum, your penis goes right back to original size. There’s no evidence of long-term benefits, but they do have one advantage for sufferers of erectile dysfunction: since the vacuum draws blood into the penis, you can quickly roll on a gently constricting cockring after removing the pump, thereby ‘trapping’ the penis in an erect state. While some people who have tried this technique report positive findings, we suggest consulting a doctor first.
Even those penile extenders and stretchers that claim to work over time would actually just be stretching your flaccid length, and that has absolutely no correlation to how big you get when hard, says Fisch. So don’t waste your money on a product or service that swears it can give you five more inches. “There’s no actual scientific study that they rely on."

Professor Ralph at UCL believes that some clinics are feeding patients’ unrealistic expectations. “Initially, they don’t see doctors, they see sales people. It’s a hard sell: ‘We can get you an extra inch or two.’ I’ve been practising in the NHS for 30 years: if it was that easy to increase the length of a normal penis, I’d be in the Mediterranean on my cruise liner now.”
Jelqing technique came from Arab tribes as it is said to be Arab tribesmen used this technique decades ago as part of passage from puberty to adulthood. In the age of puberty, a young boy was shown by his father on how to jelq. For 10 minutes a day, young boy have to jelq everyday till his adulthood and then reduce his jelqing session to 3 days a week.
that’s quite a lot of products you tried, I’m sorry to hear that you learned it the hard way. A shortcut would be awesome, but there isn’t any, there is no secret growth formula or herb mix, there is no unicorn. Enlargement takes small steps and while some (single ingredient) supplements like the amino acid L-arginine to trigger growth hormone secretion may help a little combined with the right exercises, the scientific proof of an effect is controversial. A lot of websites promote it as a proven solution, but just because a lot of people are writing about it (copying others writing about it), it doesn’t become true. Same for products increasing testosterone. Testosterone is imporant for penis growth till you are an adult, that’s proven, but as an adult, it’s different.
Amr Raheem is an andrology specialist (meaning his focus is on medicine relating to men) at University College London Hospitals, as well as a surgeon at International Andrology, a private clinic in the capital. Over the past 15 years, he has carried out more than 250 enlargements. “There is no typical patient,” Raheem says. “All professions, all ethnicities, married, single, gay, straight, rich, poor. It’s across the board. And all ages. I’ve worked on men in their 60s – I don’t know if they go out and use it afterwards. Early 20s, I won’t do. These are still boys. They must get to know it before they change it.”
Of course, even if you feel like you could use a boost in the size department, there’s a good chance your penis is actually average. The average erect penis length for most men ranges between 5-6.5 inches, while the average flaccid length ranges between 1-4 inches [2]. Although studies haven’t found a relationship between penis size and race, the evidence does show that normal stretched penile length varies between ethnic groups, with East Asians having a slightly shorter stretched penile length compared to African-American and Caucasian ethnic groups [3].
What is important to remember is that there is wide natural variation in penis size, as in height, weight, and many other human physical characteristics. Thus, what may seem small is probably normal. Surgery is fraught with uncertainties about results, and, like other forms of medically “unnecessary” cosmetic surgery, people often have unrealistic expectations and are disappointed as a result.
It is has a diverse formula of strong natural ingredients that are not only scientifically proven to be effective but are also utilised at very high potencies. Some of these ingredients such as Yohimbe provide immediate effect on promoting sufficient blood supply to the penile chambers hence facilitating your ability to hold and sustain hard rock erections.
There are several penis extender enlargement devices on the market, but the PenisMaster stands out as one of the best traction-based penis stretching device. This penis enlarger device is effective at slowly stretching the tendon that is most closely related to penis lengthening. And unlike the cheaper extenders, the wide fastener belt on the PenisMaster …
When we asked over 2,000 women across the world what was important to them in the bedroom, what consistently came across in their answers was that women care a lot more about things like foreplay, intimacy and a sense of connection than something like your size. So the conclusion: no, she doesn’t really care about the size of your penis. She probably cares a lot more about you.

A study in the Journal Of Urology researching new therapies for erectile dysfunction found that "neovascularisation using vascular growth factors have been demonstrated to be feasible in animal models". So if you inject growth factors into a human penis, it'll grow new tissue and blood vessels and you will end up with a cock the size of a horse (probably).


Penis becomes erect by absorbing blood into its spongy chambers. Thankfully, these chambers can grow and become bigger with the help of proper exercise routine. There are around 50 exercises that can increase penis size but don’t worry you don’t need to practice all of them. I am going to show you only a few exercises that can help you achieve results quickly.
Women who prefer deep vaginal stimulation want larger than average penises [2]. Deep vaginal stimulation is the path to the desirable vaginal orgasm which differs from the clitoral orgasm she can get by herself any time she wants. One study showed that a “considerable percentage” of the women participants felt size of an erection was important [3] for her sexual satisfaction.
Not all operations leave happy customers – infections and scarring are both potential side-effects (“This is the same as an operation of any kind,” Viel says). Some men report a decline in angle after the suspensory ligament is cut, but according to David Ralph, a professor of urology at UCL, “By and large, patients don’t complain about that. The operation doesn’t change the erect length at all – this is only for men who have anxiety about how they look in the changing rooms. The average increase in size is 1.3cm, less than the diameter of a 1p coin. In my clinics, I show patients one of these and ask if they still think it is worth it. Less than 5% decide to, and of those who do, the satisfaction rate is just 20%.”
“My advice to men is that before they try any potions, creams, pumps or surgery, improve your technique. You will feel more confident and women will like you a lot more, at least in the bedroom,” says Dr. David Shusterman, MD, the Medical Director of NY Urology. A lot of men don't invest money into the right products that will improve the outcomes. “At every Duane Reade they have what I call a penis enhancement pack; it includes a penis ring with a vibrator on it. The pack is $10 and it will achieve what the men want to achieve without going through surgery,” says Dr. Shusterman. A lot of men want enhancement but it tends to only hurt your sex life, not help. “Most guys regret going through surgical enhancement,” says Dr. Shusterman.
Of course, even if you feel like you could use a boost in the size department, there’s a good chance your penis is actually average. The average erect penis length for most men ranges between 5-6.5 inches, while the average flaccid length ranges between 1-4 inches [2]. Although studies haven’t found a relationship between penis size and race, the evidence does show that normal stretched penile length varies between ethnic groups, with East Asians having a slightly shorter stretched penile length compared to African-American and Caucasian ethnic groups [3].
Penis stretching is the type of penis enlargement treatment that few dare to take on. It is one of the most prevalent penis enlargement treatments available today, however due to the expense in purchasing a device or practicing masturbation like exercise techniques or even because of the tedious and redundant stretching process, many men, myself included, never thought twice about this type of treatment.
Stretching with weights. Weights or stretching exercises won't bulk up your penis -- it's not a muscle. But hanging weights off your flaccid penis may stretch it a bit, O'Leary says. The catch is that it requires a freakish degree of dedication. "You might have to wear a weight strapped to your penis eight hours a day for six months," says O'Leary. At the end of it, you could be lucky enough to gain about half an inch. Risks include tearing of the tissue, burst blood vessels, and other problems.
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